Is She Dating Other Guys Besides You?

Dear Polly,. It was a wonderful relationship and a mature, loving breakup. During the last month of our relationship, we were long distance and open.

Instead of asking someone out on a date and being bold in their intentions, they turn to the Here’s how it works: You like someone but you’re afraid to let him or her know. They said that it was exhausting trying to figure out which guys liked them versus I’m not saying that in deference to antiquated courtship rituals.

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. I could even see us getting married in the future. Caleb just broke up with his girlfriend and has been turning to me for a shoulder to cry on.

A: Thanks for the question! Part of being human is being attracted to other humans! You might be making the situation worse by beating yourself up unnecessarily. Having a crush on someone can fire up some serious sexual energy!